One of the biggest breakthroughs for me with manifesting was understanding how my unhealthy patterns and my wounded self were showing up in my manifesting????‼️
I had tried dozens of different manifestation methods and something was missing. In my truth and experiences there was a lot of bypassing in them around the deeper healing needed. So if you’ve experienced something similar, this may be a key tool for you in your manifestation journey.
When it came to manifesting I would say there was something I wanted to manifest and I would frame it as though it happened in the “I have” or “I am” but I was subconsciously committing my energy to the same unhealthy patterns and feeding my wounded self rather than healing and nurturing my wounded self and redirecting patterns in healthy ways???? I was doing this subconsciously because my unhealthy patterns were so deeply programmed into me I was on almost autopilot and I hadn’t done the work yet to uncover my wounded inner child and ancestral wounds/patterns.
Planting seeds and setting intentions for manifesting is great, but often we overlook the soil we are planting those seeds in and we are over looking our intentions/commitment of energy of how we nurture those seeds/intentions in what we are manifesting.
I believe we often need to explore the root areas of our ‘garden’, especially around patterns and wounds. Examine the soil. Examine what needs to be pruned. Examine what isn’t ours to claim but may be there from previous generations/ancestry and what may be ours to claim with healing and needs alchemizing.
To me it was similar with limiting beliefs. I never felt affirmations really sank in until I explored how those limiting beliefs even began and did root work around them and deprogramming so I could then reprogram myself with my healthy, expansive beliefs. Also allowing grace that when a limiting beliefs surfaced finding ways to understand why it was coming up and tools in how to proceed so I could support my healing and growth without going into a trauma response or restricting myself and falling back into patterns.
Was it “easy” when I dived into this stuff? No, it was muddy and murky and my wounded self wanted to resist! Our attachment to these patterns and wounds can feel like false nourishment because we have been running/going through life with them for so long.
But oh was it TRANSFORMATIVE and HEALING. I’m not going to tell you this is a skipping trip to rainbow candy land. You will need to look into your subconscious and go into the shadows to some degree. But I am going to give you some tools and a lantern for your journey there!
Redirecting my unhealthy patterns and learning how to bring healthy healing to my wounded self was KEY in my manifestation journey and continues to be.
I’ve seen so many huge shifts in the last 2 years from this with my manifesting!
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